Rant:
Attract love? Bah! I've heard more of this lately (some tv bullshit, but some actual cult-y nonsense too).. this sort of thing: 'Seek love and love will find you'. Sure if you're open to the possibility sometimes people will give you what you expect (if they're willing to give) partly because people often try to live up to others' expectations and partly because if you want to hold love for someone and they're okay with that then it's instinctively easier. I have a problem with the illusion, though I guess sometimes people just want to love blindly. Can't fault that.